I'm having problems with being a good person

Anna,

I hope you won’t take offense, but I think you think too highly of yourself in relation to your peers.

Granted, you seem to have had better opportunities than most of them and you are pretty smart for your age, having a background of knowledge that most of your peers don’t have.

But one thing you need to learn to really be a success in this life is tolerance. Most of your peers may not be your equal in ability or knowledge, but you have to accept that, accept them as they are and be tolerant of them.

Don’t sell your friends short. Their friendships can help you through hard times. And your next few years may bring some hard or confusing times as your hormones, emotions and even your brain start changing things about you and your life that you don’t expect.

Always be positive and look for the best in others and know that there is always a positive side to all your experiences.

Well, hitting. A common issue. It just means that the person is childish. And that’s all. They are childish.. And you have growed up. They thought they are funny. But you know they are not. They thought you will play with them. But you know you will not. They go around and spread rumours.. But you know yourselves the best.

Since its their hands, legs and mouth, so you cant control them. Tell yourselves that they will get their retribution someday. So dont do any silly things.. It doesnt worth it.

Those people who doesnt help you when you’re dealing with bad people but help you when you’re dealing with good people are just cowards.. So I dont see a point for you to use your time thinking of why they dont help you..

By the way, it seems like that “f” really hurts your body.. And its very serious and dangerous. Stay away from those who hurts you. You deserve better. Anyway, its okay to be alone. Just like me, im use to being alone. So now I enjoy being alone. Just get use to it and you will feel better.

Goodluck!

Hi hitting you for fun is not funny at all to be honest its really weird.maybe you should find other people to hang out with who don’t think hitting other is fun.The girl who is hitting you may have some deeper emotional problems that are causing this behavior.hitting your back can be dangerous aswell.

I already did!! she never stops!! I told you, she thinks it’s funny!!!
the other girl was my best friend!! (she’s not any more though) and I never knew that those two girls would do this to me!! they’ve been nice to me from the begening of the year! what happened now?

It could very well be that they are jealous of you and are seeking attention from you. You might try communicating with them that you are willing to be their friend but only if they stop beating on you.

Based of your question you haven’t pulled her aside yet and asked her nicely to stop hitting you. Id start there. :)

clearly she doesnt sound like your freind and its not right for you to kind of keep leading her onthe more you hit her back, the more shell think what shes doing is ok same with if you dont tell her exactly how you feel she shouldnt hit you, neither should the other girl and you need to tell them that, or just stop being there freind you should have freinds who think its okay to hit you as well as ignoring them, just let it all go let them go, and let everyone else who you think or beleive is against you go either its not worth fighting and arguing about silly things like this!