"I Love You?"

I’m 18 and my boyfriend is 18… He is a Marine and we have an awesome relationship with each other, though both of use have never had sex ever with anyone (not even with each other)… Well, he was away doing some schooling and over the phone he told me that he “loved me”… Honestly I didn’t know how to respond, I still don’t. Most people would think that it is a good thing that the guy said “I Love You” first, but I’m not sure that I love him… yet… What should I tell him that won’t make him mad or scared? Or makes him think that I don’t like him?

Answer #1

I don’t think you should say it if you don’t mean it… this happened with me and my boyfriend, he said it, a few times actually, and I didn’t say it back… he knows that I find it really hard the open up emotionally and trust people…but it did come on time… I think when I didn’t say it back after a few times he didn’t say it again…but I did eventually say it… I don’t think you should lie about your feelings

Answer #2

yeh just say I love you back. it can hurt if one person says it and the other person doesnt say it back. I know you don’t mean it but itll keep him happy. one day mabye you can say it and meen it.

Answer #3

if you wanna get serious with him tell him you love him too… even if you dont feel like you love him at least your keeping him happy… the worst thing ever is if you tell someone you love them and they dont say it back..

Answer #4

oh btw, if you don’t want to say it after he does and you don’t want it to just be silent you can kiss him…

Answer #5

how long have you two been together?

Answer #6

Oh wow, this is a tough one. If he says it and you don’t then it kind of hurts him. I went through this same situation when I told my girlfriend I was joining the Marines. At first, she didn’t even want to talk to me, let alone say “I love you too”. After a few hours, she realized that she wanted to be with me and if it means me leaving for 4 years, then she’d be with me 100%. But to be honest, for that short few hours, I felt worthless. Like, all the time we’ve spent together and she just was silent.

If you really love the guy, then say it even if it’s embarrassing. I screamed to my girlfriend “I love you” so loud everyone outside heard it. And she said it just as loud. Just say it if you mean it. If you don’t mean it, tell him, because you don’t want him to get his hopes up for this relationship and just to find out it was all worthless, trust me, we feel like that when girls don’t reply.

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