I love someone who loves someone else

I understand the situation, im in the same one..

   the problem is that part of you wants to let go so badly but the other part just keep holdin on to somethin thats not even real. because those times that give you hope never dissapear, there the memories you remember and somehow they just keep you holdin on to that last bit of hope. Sometimes you need somethin real, something that's gonna make you face the truth, even if it hurts so much. I know how it feels to have that person in your mind constantly, if you cant forget, your not ready- dont try and block something out which wont go, time will heal, and if somehow deep down you feel he does love you, hold on, but dont be invisible..let him know. xx

you know I’m in the same position as you.

Sometimes, people say that when you really love someone you should let it go and wish him happiness In other words, as long as he’s happy, you should be too. But then, some people also say that when you relly love someone you should do whatever it takes to be with this person.

So, my answer is I don’t know…For my case, I tried option 1: ‘’as long as he’s happy I am too even if it’s with someone else and not me’’ But, is exchanging your own happiness for someone else is worth it? It may sound selfish but it’s the truth. I really was happy for him but deep down, there was always this hole in my chest.

Now, I just wish time will heal my wound but I don’t think it’s working. Heck, I’ve been in love with him for 3 years! And no one knows about it. We can say that I’m a really good lyer. lol.

Just tell him how you feel without expecting anything in return. I think people like you and I should just confront our feelings. Tell him that you’re not expecting his love or anything and that you’re happy as long as he is. Tell him you just wanted him to know your feelings. Then only, you will be able to move on.