I love my ex and I don't get what he's trying to do.

About a month ago I broke up with my ex I didn’t want to I felt like I had to and I did it over the phone while I was in the pub :o. I broke up with him because I felt like a iahd to we had a very strong relationship we had been through a hell of a lot together and have supported each other very well. When I broke up with him he started screming and shouting down the phone at me and was then crying because o how much he loved then instantly I wanted to get back with him but he didn’t want to because his idiot of a brother kept making him hate me! He now has a new partner but I know he still like me because I’m friends with his sister and he told her. Everytime I’m at the house he comes up and talks to me about his weekend and I’m not sure why he does it because I’m the only one of his sisters friends that he has ever spoke to apart from saying hello he doesn’t follow them upstairs within less than two minutes to tell them about his weekend like he does me. I am really frustrated because I’m not sure what he is trying to do and I don’t want to jump straigh into another relationship because I still love him and he is always on my mind can someone just please try and tell me what he is playing at and why does he keep telling me he still cares about me and nearly making me cry? because I’m so happy to hear it. Just tell me what he’s trying to do and how he may feel about me PLEASE!!!

Answer #1

I think he does still really like you and that he jus doesnt want to get too close to you again incase you hurt him again.

You have to remeber that his reaction to you finishing it was not easy for a guy to express but as from what you have told me I think he does stil like you!!

Answer #2

If he still liked you, then why is he with someone else? Actions speak louder than words! Hes in charge of his own feelings. No one can make anybody hate another person. He obviously didnt like you enough to want to get back with you. Now it seems he wants to maybe make you jealous by telling you what he did on the weekend, but it doesnt mean he wants to get back with you. Maybe its his immature way of getting revenge. He sounds too much like my ex…full of drama!

Answer #3

I think its more likely he does still like you a lot but he’s trying not to get too close incase he gets hurt again and he coud be with this other girl to either try and make you jelous so you wud ask him out again, or to try and get over you because he thinks you will never be together again, or because he’s trying to hurt you for what you dun to him and at the same time try and make you realise how much you want him. the best thing you could do in a situation like this is to lay your heart on the line and talk to him about all of it, tell him how you feel and that you wana give it another go, and if you get rejected jus try your best to move on.

hope this helps and good luck to u.

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