What if I love my boyfriend but might like someone else?

Basically.. not to bore anyone..im sixtenn years old, and I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about 10 and a half months.. hes not my ream guy but we do everything togteher and I cant imagine my life wihtout him.. but now I have a work friend whos started to talk with me a lot.. and I dont know I feel like im cheating on my boyfriend. My friend from work is really nice and sweet and romantic and all that.. but hes two years older and a pretty busy peron.. I dont know if I can see anything happening. Even tho hes really nice. I wish I could just make my boyfriend disappear for a couple of days so I can see what it would be like if I was with someone else.. what if I only like this person becuase its someone different and it will fade all the same.. im so puzzled. But I still do love my boyfriend even tho we have been going through some tough times right now… and we broke up the other night but e asked me out again the next morning which was really sweet.. I dont know what to do.. I dont want to lose my boyfriend.. but I dont want to put down this new boy.. either way im a too nice of person. and this is just killing me. What should I do?

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Answer #1

You need to know what you want. Pick one boy and give up on the other. Of course there is always the option to be just friends, but for some reason people don’t seem to realize this.

Answer #2

Tell your b/f that you like him, you want to stay with him for a long time, but since you are just 16 you need some freedom time to time. Of course he has also this freedom. The best is the clear talk, and the loving agreement. In the real life time to time there are triangels or parallel relationships. It is better to accept this than torning between two liked persons. Show my anwer to your boyfriend. Giving some freedom is not against the real love.

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