I like him but why do I think of another guy more than him???

Well I’ve been liking a guy for 3 years alrdy. We are not together but we dated once. The date didn’t work out because he likes someone else more than me. We had a small arguement about it and didn’t talk to each for a yr. We’re talking to each other this yr again but we’re not as close as how we used to be. I still like him but I don’t know why am I thinking of another guy. This ‘another guy’…I met him this year and we’re really good friends. We kinda depend on each other quite a lot. This good friend of mine likes me but at the same time he likes some one else more than me. I think I kinda like him too but not certain whether do I like him more than a friend or just a friend. I really like the guy that I’ve liked for 3 years but I don’t why do I think of the other guy more than him?? What do you think?? Who do you think I really like?

Okay.. this is why I like the guy that I’ve known for 3yrs:

1. He is fun
2. he is more to my kind of guy
3. Both of us have the same personality.
4. We have some things in common.

And this is why I think I like about the other guy:

1. He is funny.
2. he is comfortable to hang out with.
3. he is honest
4. He always makes me laugh
5. He never get angry of me even if he try to, he’ll always fail in it.

Yeapz.. so what do you think?