I like him, should I be with him?

There is this amazing guy I met a month ago. We started chatting on msn then we started to talk on phone untill we became addicted. I knew he liked me and he knows I like him too. and we talked about it. He also said “my love” by mistake on phone :S. The problem is that we cant be together because we really care about each other and we dont wana lose each other one day after we break up. He also has a girlfriend but he doesnt really love her it kind of happened by mistake. I dont know whether I should be with him or not. please help =(

Answer #1

Yeah, I’ve been in that situation before… It’s a bomber, and hard to deal with. I suggest to wait longer and see if he’s truly the one you love and want to be with, for now, I suggest you two be really great friends! It sounds like you guys have a good relationship as friends

Answer #2

I don’t think you should be. Because then you would probley end up in his girlfriends shoes right now. They would break up, you and him would start dating, then he would fall for someone else by “mistake”. I know the type, trust me hes not worth it.

Answer #3

You should be together, because if you guys are like really obsessed with being friends right now, then can your friendship really be broken so quickly?

Answer #4

well I dont think it would feel right, I know lotz of people including myself that have a guy that they like that like them back “they dont label themselfs as boyfriend and girlfriend because they always feel presured into doin things so they call each other soul mates and they just go from there.I hope you too can work it out.good luck,

Answer #5

yeah you should be together, if you like each other that much you might aswell his girlfriend and him were together by a mistake, so there not right together I think you should go for what you believe in and dont waste this oppurtunity of happiness! also you should swear to stay friends if you do break up. Its happened to me before I went out with this guy for a while and we broke up but were actually best of friends now, we can even talk about when we went out without it being awkward! go for it xxx

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