I kissed my best friends boyfriend

a year ago, I kissed my best friends boyfriend. (now ex-boyfriend) I was drunk at the time and didnt remember it until he told me the next day. we agreed to keep it a secret and for a year I have felt incredibly guilty. the other day one of my ex-friends accused me of kissing him. how did she find out? I was mortified. she threatened to tell my bestfriend what I had done. it is my best friends birthday dinner tomorow night and my ex-friend will be there along with my other friends who I’m sure she has turned against me. I am scared to go because she might publicly announce at the dinner table what I had done. I can’t tell my bestfriend what I did because I don’t have the guts. what should I do? I can’t let my bestfriend find out because she will never forgive me!

Answer #1

never keep secrets that you know will eat you up. if you dont spill the truth then you will continue feeling guilty. You made a mistake, and obviously shes not going to say oh okay its all good, but she will forgive you. Explain to her that you and him kissed and both realized it was a stupid mistkae and didnt want to bring it up because you didnt want to lose her trust. If you blame it on being wasted then she’ll always wonder if she should fully trust you. She needs to know, and trut me you will both feel better after you deal with it. Make sure you share all your feels, crying in front of her wouldnt hurt either.

Answer #2

first of all just know that it is ur word against hers, who would ur best friend believe u or her, u have no idea wat shes talking about, she is making things up, besides, just say u dont remember anything from that day cus u were wasted, thats one way to approach this, another is if u really feel guilty about it then u should just tell her, if she is a real freind then she will forgive u, it wasnt ur fault, u were under the influence, its a tough choice but in the end it is all up to u wat u do, either u tell her or u dont, she has no reason not to forgive u

Answer #3

where do i start…

2)everyone makes mistakes and we cant change the past we can only move on and hope for a better day and learn from our mistakes and everything we do 3)your not a bad friend 4)well i have no idea what happened that night but lets start by forgetting that stupid kiss and get to the real meaning of this do not focus on the kiss when i try to talk some sense into you 5)i know this sounds really stupid but as you learned i dont care what happened YOU DO NOT KEEP SECRETS!!!! they will eat up the good of you and whatever you have going on

  1. i dont care how intimidated scared or how u feel about whatever happened when it happens whoever its going to effect you tell them asap 7)well dear this is where it all comes down if ur so called best friend doesnt listen to u and tells u i dont want to see u anymore or says were over deal with it! yes u got burnt but a real friend gets mad pissed whatever talks to u and listens to u and gives all she got to get that shit out of the way and be a real friend she doesnt have to trust you but she will be more cautious so you cant hurt her again but i can tell u so much for hours about what to do but i cant because this all evolves around one thing and the awnsers are only found through him and expierence if she doesnt forgive u screw her move on and find a new friend cause real friends may not forget but they sure in the hell better forgive if u need more info email me at missperfection1@yahoo.com or hell if u have to call me at 408-679-9802 im krystal and good luck im here for u ive been through everything
Answer #4

Just tell her!!! If she did that to you would you rather her tell you or someone who wasn’t even friends with her? Tell her before she hears it from someone else.

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