How to get over him?

If he wanted you back, Im sure he would have told you by now. The best thing you can do for yourself is STOP all contact with him, because its only sending you mixed messages. The less you know about what hes doing the better. Focus on yourself and your confidence. You want to stop thinking about the ex, not continue it! Unfortunately there are tons of break ups out there, don’t let it make you bitter. You have to date around, find out what you want in a relationship, find out what a relationship is really about, before you finally find that one relationship where you won’t break up. It sucks but there’s always hope. It won’t always hurt so badly. Just try to keep that in mind. There is light at the end of the tunnel.