I guess I'll let go of this one guy...right?

I dont understand why you are saying how you have to keep letting all these guys go, when you never had any of them to begin with. And now your saying this one you just want to keep for yourself…I know its frustrating feeling like every guy you are crushing on likes your friend, but its not the end of the world. The thing that will get you through is to remember that you can’t change other people — not your best friend or the guys who pay attention to her — but you can make changes in your life to make yourself feel better. Try & seek out some kind of goal that’s related to your passion. You’ll be so focused on achieving your goal, you won’t have time to feel overshadowed by your friend; plus you’ll start to naturally attract attention from people you meet through your shared interests — including guys! Or maybe you just need to take a break from your best friend, and hang out with other friends.

I agree with xlysx but to add with my own stuff if it helps I liked my sisters best friend for I think 3 years now but I took a chance and my sister didnt like it but her best friend did and now we have been dating for almost 7 months now.

I never read the post you wrote before but from what this sounds like, Iwill base my answer on.

it hurts more to look back and regret NOT doing something and never finding out how it could’ve ended up, then to have said something. I’m sure other people said that to you before :) but you should never be afraid to take a chance! you never know, he could be thinking the same as you!

if you’re worried about your brother being annoyed by it or anything then you should start a conversation with him and kind of hint/joke that you like his friend, and see how he reacts! if he reacts badly you can just laugh it off and pretend to be joking. and if he reacts well, you can confide in him and ask him to mention you to his friend :)

thanks you guys!! You guys helped a lot!!