I feel so left out, I'm the only virgin I know.

I’m 15 and I’m the only virgin that I know. All my friends, including the ones who are younger than me, have had it and because I’m the only one in the group who is a virgin I get the piss taken out of me. I’ve had boyfriends before and they’ve tried to pressurize me into it but I’ve always said no because I wasnt ready. But now it seems like everyones having sex, I feel like an alien. should I just lose it or should I try and wait? x

Answer #1

Just because you seem to be the only virgin doesn’t mean you should lose your virginity. If boys try to force you into having sex… THEY ARE NOT RIGHT FOR YOU! A true partner should respect your decision and wait until you are ready. My personal opinion is that you shouldn’t do it. Wait until you are older and use protection if you aren’t ready for a possible child yet. Hope this helps :)

Answer #2

omg please stay a virgin this is such a huge problem that girls feel left out because theyre the only virgins then they have sex they get pregnant and/or get a std they regret it just please do not have sex until u’ve found the right guy who you love and who also loves you back. makes sure you know the person and feel like you really couldnt live without them then have sex but your not ready now so dont do it!!

Answer #3

im also a virgin. and its way nicer if you wait till your ready for it. Dont make yourself get pressurized by anybody!!! have sex when you feel like having it. besides if you meet a boy and he claims to love you and you love him ,,you can see if he really loves you. if hes willing to wait for you to be ready then he does. if he wants sex from you fairly early then he just wants to f* you. and you know hes not the guy you want. if your a virgin guys want you more because they know your hard to get..and they have to do more effort..

wilst if they want to have a quick f* they can jsut go to one of your not virgin friends .. ang go wid them.. at least thats the way it works were I live..plus if you lose your virginity to a guy that doesnt mean nothing to you or a guy you barely know its pretty sluttish..

hope my advice helped you a bit greetings :)

Answer #4

I’m in the same position, and I’m also the prettiest out of all of my friends which really piss’ me off. Boys in high school tend to go for girls who are sluts so that they can have a quick shag and be done with it, but it isn’t until you leave school that the girls who have had a reputation for sleeping around aren’t cared about anymore and the “studs” in high school turn their attention to the girls who were more innocent throughout hight school. Keep your innocence for as long as you can! Trust me it doesn’t make you cool if you lose your virginity at an early age! Make sure that you are in a relationship with somebody you love and trust, don’t just do it with somebody just because “everyone else is doing it” because chances are their probably not. I have been in relationship for 2 months with my boyfriend at the moment, and sex is becoming a subject that is occuring in conversations more often than not, but he is not a virgin and I am, so I am trying to wait as long as I can so that I know he trusts me and he’s not just using me for sex. Hope this helped, I know I went on a bit but I just want to tell you how important it is to respect yourself and not just sleep with the first boy you see because you think everyone else is doing it. Boys will respect you more if they can see that you respect yourself :) ttfn x

Answer #5

Embrace being a virgin, be happy that you’re different.

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