How can I feel sexy in front of my boyfriend?

Dear,

I would like to know what you care about more? love or just relationship? because it seems to me that he loves you and that’s what is important. To be hot it doesn’t mean that he’s going to stay with you forever.

omg I have the same exact problem…I cant advice you I actually need the advices too:(

He must find you attractive, otherwise he wouldn’t be with you. If he doesn’t think that you are the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, you are not alone, most boyfriends cannot honestly say that about their girlfriend. He didn’t say you were ugly or anything, so don’t sweat it, be the same person you were before he told you that he thought you were only “good-looking” instead of “hot”!

I think that next time you see him, confront him and ask him if he finds you attractive. Hopefully you are worring about nothing.

Maybe you need to do something like change your hair color or something and feel sexy for yourself and not anyone else. I see people said confidence is sexy, and I agree 100%. dont let whatever he said get to you, whats important is you feel sexy about yourself. Once he sees your confidence building up, he will notice how really gorgeous you are..you have many reasons to be confident,every woman does, so use them!!

He’s not been with you for a year if he doesn’t love you. Do something to make yourself feel hotter. Get a manicure, go to the spa, Get a facial, have a girls night out. And be confident in yourself and you will look prefect!!

don’t worry. I agree with the rest. He wouldn’t be with you if he didn’t find you attractive to the point of turning him on.

Dear lbenson21, There is an old adage: a rung bell cannot be unrung. Meaning you won’t ever forget what he said. Yes…it is your problem and you need to get over it. You see a guy typically sees women in magazines as hot. The pictures are air brushed, altered and manipulated so the girls don’t have any wrinkles, creases…they are made to look just perfect. Unfortunately boys will compare normal people to these women. Once a a boy grows up some he will realize the truth…I am assuming he hasn’t dated much. So yes, you need to get over it because it is his immature mind and inexperience is why he said what he did. Sue…good luck

I had the same problem

I am the sort of person that would always wear a sports bra and boyleg underwear. When I went out with my boyfriend I found that I felt I wasnt sexy enough for him. For the next couple of dates I would go out with him I would wear a cheap g string (that I bought especially for this) and a cute bra. This made me feel more comfortable around him. I later thought to myself, why am I doing this, he wouldn’t keep going out with me if he didn’t like it!! just go for it girl, he loves you and thats all that matters!

I had this issue too! Im the sort of person who goes around in a sports bra and a pair of boyleg undies. The one thing that I found worked was for a couple of times that I was around him I would wear a cheap g string I bought especially for this occassion and a cute bra. This made me feel heaps better about myself personally and I didn’t care what he thought, for goodness sakes, he wouldnt have been with me if he couldn’t stand looking at me!!

Just because your boyfriend doesn’t think you’re hot doesn’t mean he doesn’t think you’re attractive sweetie. It would be nearly impossible for someone to be in a relationship for such a long period of time with a girl who he doesn’t even find attractive. And about feeling sexy around him. The number one thing I hear from guys is that confidence is the sexiest thing a girl can have. Show him that you have confidence in yourself, not only in your appearance, but in your intelligence, and the things you do. I promise, confidence is ALWAYS sexy, no matter what you look like.