I feel really down

recently I’ve just been feeling really lonely and upset, I know its probably pathetic and I have no real reason to be down but I just feel really depressed, im crying about twice a day I think its partly because of my so called best friend, I really dont like her (altho she doesnt know it) shes always so loud and nasty and always puts me down. its alright being with her for like an hour but after that when weve run out of things to talk about she goes all nasty and mimics me and tries to trip me up. im not as much of a pushover as I used to be, so I dont let her walk all over me. but she is really horrible I dont want to have a talk with her baout this as it would be really awkwardand shes invited me to clothes show live in dcember so I have to stay her friend. but what can I do to get her to try and treat me better (she is like that with most people not just me, I think its just how she is)

Answer #1

Right I dont mean to sound nasty but your comment ‘hes invited me to clothes show live in dcember so I have to stay her friend’ sounds rather selfish, as though you only want to stay friends with her so you can go. If your not happy with the way in which she treats you, spend some time away from her and see other friends instead for a bit. Then in a few weeks meet up with her, hopefully you wont run out of things to say and then she wont turn horrible. To be honest this is all I can think of to suggest, unless you talk to her and tell her how she makes you feel. She probably doesn’t even realise it makes you feel this way. So she wont change until she knows shes hurting people she cares about. I hope things turn out okay.

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