Am I wrong to be bent and feeling this way?

I love my boyfriend and his way of always want to help and take care of problems. But he is always doing things for his ex-wife! Winter he snow plows her drive, He gone running over to her house to let the dog out so she didn’t have to leave a local carnival. I asked him to quit, that if she wanted him for these things she should not have screw him over with his sister husband. I want away this past weekend. When I came back he let it slip that he went with her and paid for the cataract surgery. This is for the dog she took with her in the devoice His reasoning is the he bought the dog and she couldn’t afford it. despite the fact for the past six months he has been complaining about in this economy he is going to lose his business and about how broke he is paying her 600 a week alimony! Am I wrong to be bent and feeling as if she is doing this just to prove she can.

Answer #1

seems like to me that he is not over his ex wife…you just seem to be the back up plan..he wants to know if things can work back out with her, and if they do he wud get back with her..An EX is suppose to stay an EX. you dont need someone like that. talk to him about this & see where it goes from there.. He def. needs to make a choice..he cant be playing games.

Answer #2

You have the right to feel the way you do really.. Seems like he stills has feelings for her obviously any other man would have said im nt doing s**t for you lol… But he needs to decide… She knows exactly what she is doing.. But that is just what these boppers do. Mess up a good relationship for sum bs then want to start it over even when they know someone else is in the picture.. I would talk to him about it and confront her about it

Answer #3

NO!!! you are NOT WRONG FOR FEELING THE WAY you DO! HE NEEDS TO MAKE A CHOICE! IF NOT LET HIS SORRY AZZ GO BACK TO HER! YOU SEEM LIKE A KIND ENOUGH PERSON TO FIND THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE THAT FITS YOUR STANDARDA! DON’T LOWER YOUR STANDARDS, GET OUT AND FIND THAT GOOD MAN THAT YOU DESERVE!!!(KEEP YOUR HEAD UP BABY)!!!

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