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I feel intimidated by his fantasies...

My boyfriend fantasizes and watches porn of big breasted women and girl-on-girl. Of course as you may guess, I have small breasts and well, I wouldn’t feel comfortable with girl-on-girl, in you know, like a threesome.

I feel so insecure… he just brushes it off as fantasies and nothing else. He says it’s normal for men to fantasize about other women and I should just get used to it. But I feel like I’m not what he wants. I mean I have small t*ts! IT SUCKS, because he likes big ones. I bet he’d feel the same if I liked and “fantasized” about big penises but he’s lucky that I don’t.

I hate how I look, what can I do? I feel so unconfident and unsexy now.

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Answer #1

It doesnt suck, some men prefer small breats ahem >> <<…anyway… it is true that many men watch pornography and I’ve been there myself it is literally no strings attached sex, you dont want to have sex with the women your watching its just like a tool to help you take care of yourself basically. I dont watch porn since I got a girlfriend though. Dont worry about it and dont feel insecure, he is with you isnt he? So he must love you anyways, it probably doesnt matter to him. So dont try and look different and if he suggests a threesome you should ALWAYS decline, they RUIN relationships, im serious they can be emotionally devastating and cause major trust issues and usually end relationships within months. Not that you ever would just saying.

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