I dunno what to do...

I am going through a really hard time right now. I was with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have just split up which has hit me really hard we have had our problems in the past but nothing that has come to us splitting up and to be honest I never thought I would split up with him cause I loved/love him so much. He ended things with me because he says he wants to get on with his life and to find out if there is someone out there who will love him more than I do. My heart broke when he said it but I dunno what to do. I am university and still have another 8 months to go and he knows I can't fully commit until university has finished. I have no idea what to do or say to him anymore. I love him and don't want things to end but its what he wants and I can't change his mind right?

Answer #1

Look, just give hinm time. He wil soon come back to you.

Answer #2

stop telling every body your sobb story and deal with it, Gosh. Get a life. Oh and I dated your man. no really. I loved him more than you did. I just finished my university and imm im love…

Answer #3

Cordelia you must be a little scared.I think you are a little scared because you probably would have imagined spending the rest of your life with this guy.Obviously he hasn’t done the same.I’m sorry i had to put it to you so straight.Let him go for now.If you really love him as much you think you’ll stay single for the rest of your life because you love him.Take care of yourself first.You’re young and in college.Why don’t you get through that first?.And i understand you guys were together for five years but worse things happen than that.So many married couples who’ve been together for longer have split up or have gotten divorced.So just imagine if you guys got married to each other and you had kids.. What if he said he wanted to break-up wit you then?.. How do you think your kids will feel?.. Isn’t it better this way?.. Just think about all this.. I don’t know if this advice i just gave you helped you in any way.. I pray to God that it does.. Take Care.. :)..

Answer #4

What he said to you was thoughtless, and shows you that you are too good for him. He has hurt you. Dont waste your love on him. Use it on someone who cares. :) x

Answer #5

you must give him and allow him the times that he needs that way there’s more chance of him coming back because he’ll see that you do care about him and his needs. what he needs now is space. that’s what i did when my boyfriend broke up with me and he came back to me when i called him after a week and a half to say what’s up. he really miss me. even though he met new gurls he could’nt do anything with them because its me he see. he only saw my face the whole time he talks to them gurls. im telling you just give him time to think it through just don’t bother him or make him feel force to be with you ok.

Answer #6

I love monjey poo

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