I dont know what to do... please help!!!

Anyone else have any advice please???

Your being VERY naive, as young teens usually are. When you start to notice changes in the relationship, it means something! we used to talk to each other all day. But now we only talk at night and hes always very distracted. I feel neglected. Hes also breaking promises>>…those are ALL red flags that somethings going on. It doesnt matter if he says he “loves” you, if he isnt showing you, then his words arent true. Long distant relationships arent easy, and when you only see each other every 2 mos. its hard to really know that person.

He is 17 im 15 its not like he can just move. I dont believe at all that he is cheating on me, that wasnt my question.>> Sorry Hun, but theres indications that show otherwise. How do you know he isnt cheating… because he says he “loves” you? Guys say that ALL the time, but if they can have their cake & eat it too, THEY WILL. Especially if their partner lives far away.

You came here asking for advice on what you should do, because your boyfriend isnt like he used to be…then you need to start being open-minded to the possibility of him being unfaithful. Adults see things differently, we’ve learned how to put two & two together to get an answer, and if you choose to ignore his behavior, then you cant blame anybody but yourself for trust issues you might have in future relationships.

Wow the question was never is my boyfriend cheating on me??? No that was never the question I know him VERY well and I know that he would never cheat on me. I am not being naive I just refuse to asume that he is cheating on me because we havnt been talking as much. I am not paranoid, and I do know a lot about guys and how they think, but I also know him and I know that he would never cheat. He lives in like the middle of no where anyways so if he WAS that kindof guy that would cheat he wouldnt have anyone 2 cheat with. I trust this guy with all my heart =) Thankyou tho but can any one please anwser the question that I asked?

No its not that hes confined 2 his home its that hes not from there and he doesnt have any friends there really. I have known him for a year and I dont think that I know him, I know that I know him and I know that he would never cheat on me. But its pointless arguing over my life and what my boyfriend is like with a complete stranger who has no idea what he is like.

LOOK MEN NEED RELATIONS IM NOT TRYING TO BE A B BUT THIS GUY IS AWAY FROM YOU OFCOURSE your NOT THE ONLY ONE your PRETTY DONT TAKE THAT FROM ANY GUY IF HE TRULY LOVED YOU HED FIND AA WAY TO BE WITH YOU AND NOT BE SO DISTANT LONG DISANCE RELATIONSHIPS DONT WORK IM SORRY GOOD LUCK!

Your the one who came here asking complete strangers about your boyfriends behavior. Did you expect to here what you wanna hear? You may have known him for a year, but do you know what hes doing now 24/7 being that you both live in different states? I dont understand why you even care about his behavior when your talking about liking another boy?

Of course we know your question wasnt about cheating, BUT from what you have stated about your boyfriend, that could be a possiblity! Changes MEAN something.

I’m sure a lot of girls THINK they really know their boyfriends, but you dont live near him, and you dont see him everyday, so how can you say with 100% certainity that he would never cheat? Just because he lives in the middle of nowhere doesnt mean hes isolated from people. Besides, anyone can go to him. You make it sound like hes confined to his home. If that were the case, how is he able to visit you?

Look my wife is on here she is the previous person that has been writing my name is Marcus and I have a friend that has a long distance realationship and the only time he talks to his girl is during the night every now and again he talks to her during the day but just for a short time he cheats on her all the time im not saying that every guy does this ;) but if you are having a long distance relationship I really doubt his zipper only comes down for you and the toilet so be prepared for the worst cause in long distance relationships thats what happens. and, another thing he is 17 your 15 im pretty sure he has another girlfriend that goes to his school or lives around the corner although females are always gonna be more faithful than the male companion im sure you have had thoughts about talking to another guy but when you have those thoughts and you move on well lets just say you not being there with him he most likely acts on those thought good luck little girl.