I dont know what to do...please help

well me and this girl hannah have been friendds for 8years and have been best friendds tooo long to just say no I dont want to be your friend.me and her get in fights a lot or we’d just get mad at eachother and we wouldn’t know why.sooner or l8ter we would make up and be best friends but then like a week l8ter we would just start fighting over nothing.she’s in with the in crowd at school and she is turning into a brat like them but me and her are still besties.what can I do???

Answer #1

Get together - make a pact - nothing destroys our friendship / comes between us - pledge to each other to honor it…I wish you the best !!

Answer #2

YOU 2 ARE APROBALLY AROUND EACH OTHER WAYYY TOMUCH TS THE SAME STORY WITH ME AND MY BESTIE DAYANA(FRIENDS 4 3-5 YEARS).YOU SHOULD just SHARE YOUR FEELINGS WITH HER.

Answer #3

Talk to your friend about your feelings. Explain that you feel her behavior iis going to ruin your friendship. Be non-confrontational about it.

Answer #4

I think your both just going through trials in your friendship right now. You should just sit her down and talk to her about it. Tell her everything that is bothering you and give her the chance to tell you everything that is bothering her, don’t be snarky to each other just listen. Edited to add: I am 30 years old and have the same best friend, we have been there done that but it wouldn’t be how it is now if we didn’t tell each other how we felt. Communication is the key to making any relationship work, friends do come and go but if she’s your best friend then obviously her relationship means more to you and letting her go isn’t an option!

Answer #5

Friends come and go. She’s obviously and needlessly hurting you and you don’t need that. Perhaps let her grow out of that phase and then pick up after your friendship later. I had a best friend whom I’ve known my entire life but we stopped talking in the middle of high school. I can’t explain why it happened, but it just did. I used to hate her for being so mean and self-centered, but now I belatedly realize that I shouldn’t waste my energies on someone who probably isn’t thinking twice about me. But if you are forgiving enough that she comes back to you somehow in the future, you can try to work it out.

Answer #6

K…just cause she’s a brat and with a different crowd doesn’t mean you still can’t be her friend. Be nice to her still, but you don’t have to feel like you have to worship her. People change. I had a best friend for years…then we just changed…so we don’t talk as much…it’s all good…just be yourself…then you have no worries

Answer #7

I’ve been friends with my mate (adam) since I started secndry school. that’s like 3 4 years now, and back in year 7, we got along so well. however this lead to consequences. in year 7 we’d have dispuits and fights. so then we began to keep our distance and give eachother a bit of room. now in year nine and we’re good mates agin.

the onlytrouble is, it’s happening all over again, with my other best mate. but you’ve just got to learn to get over it.

my advice is just carry on as normal, because as long as you two put theses little fights behind you, you’ll be besties for much longer. other wise, I’d be spitting in Adam’s face if I was too sensitive. just gott a to learn to respect eachother’s feelings.

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