I dont know what to do

have been going the gym a lot and this lad that works there keeps stare at me and then the other day he asked me 4 his number. I go the gym everyday and when it was his day off he went the gym just 2 see me . When he is at work when he gets a break he comes 2 the gym 2 talk 2 me. I have got of with him loads and we are going the cinema on monday I really like him and he turned around and said he loved me . But my exs best mate keeps asking me questions like what are you watchin what time are you going the cinema :S.(its ever since he found out that someone fancyed me) I feel like my ex will turn up and ruin it 4 me. I feel like I am over him but I am not sure. I feel like he is gettin his mate 2 ask me all these questions 2 find out who I fancy. Me and my ex spilt up on bad terms and he spilt up with me. his mate sent me a link 2 the first film me and my ex watched and it was the first film we watched I feel like he is trying 2 get back at me or with me I am just not sure. I have not heard from my ex 4 ages but I feel like he is gettin his mate 2 ask me questions because when he talks 2 me on msn it doesn’t sound like his mate it sounds like my ex. please would someone help me what is my ex trying 2 do :S

Answer #1

I agree with you, he is either trying to get his mate to see who you r going out with and if you still have feeling for him, hence the link to the first film you saw with him.

 his mate could also be trying to get at you himself, but I don think that's likely cause of the movie link. your ex still has feelings for you and he probably is thinking that he made a mistake by breaking up with you and is trying to see if you still like him. 
 wut you should do depends on the turns of which you broke up. I think you should ignore him and see the guy at the gym that you like, also, dont tell your ex's mate about the movie, if you must, tell him the wrong time or movie, I bet they want to spy on you and ruin the date for one of two reasons: 1) he still likes you, or 2) he is trying to screw with you. 
 I suggest if you want to see the other guy, screw back. tell them all thw wrong things, like the wrong movie time or if the mate asks if you are going out with him again, dont hive him details.

good luck!=D let me know if you need more help or 2 let me know how it goes.

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