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What if this girl at school hates me?

a girl at school hates me and I dont know why and she throws big parties and im the only one not invited. when I ask her why she doesnt like me, she says she does, but she doesnt!

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Answer #1

I agree with the above advice. Just be nice, ask her if you’ve done something to offend her and see if you can do something to rectify it.. Don’t go crazy kissing her butt or anything though. Just be simple and short and to the point. If she continues giving you a load of bull, then just ignore the crap out of her. Throw your own parties and invite your real friends.

And often, because someone doesn’t invite you to a party, it doesn’t always mean they don’t like you or “hate” you. Sometimes, especially with young people, it just means they don’t really relate to you or feel they have much in common with you. Most people only want people at their party that they feel entirely comfortable with. Nothing wrong with that. But young kids tend to translate that as dislike for one another. Basically because they don’t know any better.

Kids can be cruel. Just hang on to your real friends and don’t think twice about that brat if the behavior continues in the future.

Answer #2

Oh Sorry…..some girls can be really mean.. Just look at her and say will, i never received an invite to your parties…but if there is something I have done to upset you I would like to talk aobut it. Be VERY SWEET and this will make her feel guilty… but don’t Be a “B” cuz it will not help at all.. she may be jealous about something… a boy coming to the party may have liked you… or she just wants to be a a plain mean girl… some day she will get hers but for now just be your sweet self and people will be asking her… hey why don’t you invite athletic girl? don’t you invite her she’s so nice….it will take time bu this will blow over…keep tuff and good luck!

I’ve had some of this too …im also an athlete… and people can be very jealous of your hard earned body and your accomplishments….

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