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I have just broke up with my boyfriend, he has been away for almost 3 months as he is in the navy, i loved him so much but we always argue and he says its my fault 90 percent of the time, he calls me names like i am a F#$king retard ect...and then i ask my self maybe im am acting wrong.
I used to be really clingy to him and try to controll what he does and he told me if i dont stop i'll lose him so i stopped and started to get my own life wich i am thankful of doing because im having heaps of fun hanging around all our friends and im not so dependant on him anymore, he turned around and said im acting like a single person because evertime he calls which mind you is at nite and im always out, i have only been to one pup and one club and one party scince he has been away and the rest of the time i am at the gym or hanging out with firneds watchin movies etc...most of my friends are guy friends but they are his friends too and they are all loyal friends, i have a girl best friend and we share the same friends too so i thougfh he would understand! I broke it of becasue we are always argueing and i was sick of being accused for doing everything wrong by him and frustrating him, now he's acting like a pig to his friends and saying i have turned his friends against him? Is this my fault? please i need some views because i feel guilty?
No i appreciate what he does and i did everything for him, am im joining the navy myself but he said for me to stop being so clingy so i did and im friends with his friends and he expects me to not go out so i dont miss his call, which during the week im at the gym and i dont have my fone on me for half an hour and the rest of the times he is frustrated with me because he wanted the relationship to go slower because we rushed things and i was too dependant on him so i change my ways to suit him and i had fun in the process, im honest too him and he just stirs me up on the fone wich then we result into argueing, i love him still but im not happy withhow he treats me....would you call the girl you supposed to love a fucking retard?
yes they are so assume your usually like this, you know what? You just made me relize that how pathetic it was to even go on the net to ask for advise, it was the most geek thing i have aver done and i thankyou for making me relise this, i spose theres nothing else to do when your at work but i swear this will be the last geek thing i ever do.
This situation is not your fault. What the hell could you do when he is far? Sitting at home and waiting for his call? Choose that life which gives you the best atomosphere. If someone joins the navy that is very nice, but it means that he leaves the normal everyday life. Anyways, never stay with that male who humiliates you even verbally.
are you being serious, i would do anything for this guy and ur callimng me a retard....maybe ur gay and love men and hate women then? How does that feel obviously you you have some issues if you can call a complete stranger a retard but all i can do is laugh at you because that was a pretty funny comebak!
Hahahah, at least you have scence of humor ...i think?
Im just sad because its a year down the drain and now he is going to be angry with all hjis friends when they havnt done anything but be supportive to him and im worried he will have no friends!
Do you have any friends?
They wont but hes being mean to them would you be mean to ur friends?
and are you black? i mean that in a non racial way? and do you like men? and are you in the navy? do you have or have you ever had a girlfriend?
so you think ya helped me by calling me a ho? haha im only kidding it didnt really bother me i just think ur quite funny even if your trying to be serious!
yeah i dont know what that feels like! it doesnt beat sleeping and it being a sunday night over there i know i would be in bed! y arent you?
im off probly wont ever talk ta agen thanks for the advise now im goin to serve my customers as a good ho should
catch ya
k then thanks for your view thats what i wanted :) are you always mean to strange women?
do you take drugs? are you naturally funny in a very strange way?
