Why do guys ignore you?

What are some reasons a guy would ignore someone (female)? We used to talk nonstop and even hung out just over a week ago and all of a sudden he wont return texts and wont talk to me!

Why is he acting weird?

Answer #1

because they are frigging cowards!!

Answer #2

…so why dont you just ask him?

Answer #3

sounds like he’s not worth your time. Don’t listen to those others that said that he likes you because if he was truly interested in you he would NOT ignore you!!! I like what the first chic said for advice. If it were me, I’d either back off and treat him like the jerk he is and wait for him to come running to me or just drop him like a hot potato.

Answer #4

my best friend is doing the exact same thing we hung out all the time now hes completely ignoring me. I guess I am just going to wait and see what happens. I no it really sucks.

Answer #5

I have been through that before…and I had to ask one of my older guy friends for advice on that…here’s what he told me to do (and it actually worked!) -Don’t call, text, or e-mail him (I know it’s hard to do…but stick with it) -If he does call, text, or e-mail you just be cool…don’t show your feelings -Distance yourself from him so he can see that you’re not all wrapped up in him…you have a life. Last, but not least…the VERY best advice I ever got is this: THE EASIEST WAY TO LOSE SOMETHING IS TO WANT IT TOO BADLY So, if he really likes you (he may be confused or overwhelmed) then he will definitely notice that you’ve stopped talking to him. My friend also told me that guys like to chase the girl…once you start chasing him he knows that he can get away with not talking to you, doing what he wants, etc…but if YOU let HIM chase you, you’ll be a lot happier in the long run…I hope this helps…good luck and hang in there!!

Answer #6

Because they just want you to think that they are hard to get and if theor twins the brother talks to you only and theythinkyou dont notice.michaela

Answer #7

cause he knows you like him and he knows he likes you too but he is trying to keep his distance cause he doesn’t know what to say or do with you he’s confused!

Answer #8

He probably all of a sudden realized he had real feelings for you and didn’t know what to do or how to handle it.

Answer #9

He may have developed feelings for someone else, and doesn’t want to hurt you by talking to you…thinking you might have feelings for him. The best thing to do is act like nothing has changed, say hello when you see him and don’t let it get you down if he turns the other way…if you were good friends eventually he will realize he is being nasty.

Answer #10

I have been through that shit too. It’s probably because, suddenly he realizes if you two get too closed and then in the end he has to take the responsibility = take you as his girlfriend. But he has doubt, either on taking the responsibility, or he is not sure is he likes you enough to make you his girlfriend. He thinks you two hang out too much and is afraid to continue. So he stops everything even if it means he is being a jerk. But he’s pretty selfish for that you can tell. If he cares about you enough he would never wanna upset you. Ignore him in return, eventually he will pay attention back on you ironically. But that made me lost faith in him because he might be the type that running away whenever there’s problem in the future.

Answer #11

Guy are like that,because in that way you cannot hurt them easily.They want to make themselves hard to get,they don’t to present there selves uncool and the ones who are chasing gurls,i guess that a pride lifting

Answer #12

Sometimes guys are jerks and they’re to busy.

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