I don't know why I'm bothering to ask

but I will anyways. what do you do if the girl you love that you know still has feelings for you is stuck with some punk guy she dated for a little while. she says she is single, but they still hang out all the time and all they do is argue and not a normal type of arguing but pretty ridiculous and she always ends up crying( I really don’t like this guy, he’s the extremely jealous type and controlling, with a bad temper, I mean I could beat the everliving crap out of him, but it wouldn’t solve anything. though I would if he ever lays a hand on her.) she is easily manipulated and pretty emotional and I just feel like she is trapped with him. I know he has threatened to commit suicide because she wanted to leave him. I’ve tried to tell her how I feel, and it seems like she is afraid to talk to me. one time she called me, out of nowhere, crying, asking me if it was true what I had told her about how I feel, but our conversation got cut off short by that friggin punk. I don’t know what to do, because I just left her a long message, it was pretty deep, and my response was two words, “move on”. I don’t really believe she wants me to. her friends tell me she still loves me, when we are in the same room with each other we can’t make eye contact, well, she can’t look at me. and the arguments that her and this kid have all the time are over me. its ridiculous! well, sorry that this is so long. I felt it needed somewhat thorough explaining, though its still pretty vague.

Answer #1

I think it is you that is having the difficulty of letting go. Why don’t you try and remove yourself from her life for awhile. If she truly does love you she will find her way back to you. If and when she does you may have moved on.

Stop enabling her to have a choice.

peace.

Answer #2

Well if she truly doesn’t love that guy and wants to end it with him she should, so just because he says he will “suicide” himself she shouldn’t go on with him without wanting to. that probably is just crap, I bet he won’t dare to kill himself. if she’s scared to end it with him she should tell her parents or an adult to help her in case he would do something to her if she breaks up with him. if she doesn’t want to tell anyone and look for help then there’s nothing to do, if she doesn’t want to find a way to end it with him then she just doesn’t want to end it. cause if she really wanted to she would do it, even with help, not alone if she’s scared… So I dunno you could just keep trying to talk to her and try to find out what she really wants, or if she’s scared of breaking up with him or what… good luck…

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