I don't know what to do anymore!

can I just say first off, NO ONE is beyond help…as long as they want it…

you need to get your mum to recognise that she has a problem, and he trying to hide it isn’t working anymore. also, you need to let her know that it’s really hurting you…

you should keep an eye on her this evening…BUT if your in any doubt, then cal an ambulance…this is an unfair burden for you to have to take on…

and as for not caring about you…maybe, just maybe, she feels like you would either be better off without her, or she thinks she’s mucked it up already anyway…

if I were you, I would call an ambulance if she becomes to drowsy to raise her awake again…even though she may be fine. this may be the perfect oppertunity for you to get some help, when she’s in a position that she can’t get away - as in, in the hospital and seeing the psychiatric nurse who will evaluate her and see if there’s any problems there, such as depression etc…then hopefull, the route of recovery can be set.

people give up long-term alcohol and drug addictions everyday…it REALLY doesn’t matter that your mums done it for ages, the important thing is she gets help…

no one is beyond help…or why do we bother trying.

something like 92% of first time recovering alcoholocs relapse…that’s staggering, but I think it shows that people all struggle, but it’s important to keep trying.

if your mum really really can’t stop and is being this dangerous, you may have ot step back… you can’t change someone who doesn’t want to be changed…

it depends if you want to use the nicey nicey approach or the severe..I would always try the nice first and not resort to leaving until there was no indication of tring anymore..more over, regreat or remorse for doing what she is…

good luck, keep an eye on her tonight…x