I don't know if I am pregnant, I need advise.

Hi, my name is Sarah,

I have been taking a birth-control shot (Depo-Provera), it was administered by injection every 90 days.

It isn’t allowed to be administered again before 88 days. My last shot was on July 1, 2008.

and the last day of my last period was June 19th, but that period was abnormal.

I say that because it lasted 2 months strait.

Today’s date is June 4, 2009, and I haven’t had the shot since July 1, 2008, & haven’t had any sign at all of my period since my last one ended June 19, 2008.

I got married July of 2008 & have been having unprotected sex since then.

There has been No condoms & No form of birth-control on my part either.

I have taken some pregnancy tests & my husband helped me read them.

But what looks like an inconclusive result to me, looks like a “for sure negative” to him.

But lately I have asked him to get a pregnancy test, he says there is absolutely no way I am pregnant.

When I ask why he says because he pulled out.

When I told him that pre-ejaculate fluid has more sperm in it that what comes out when he is finished, he said thats is a myth.

& when I try to get him to read something or watch a video by doctors on the subject of sex or pregnancy, he gets really angry w/ me.

What should I do? We live with my parents, they would kick us out if they find out we haven’t been using protection.& we are in college! we don’t have the $$$ for our own place…

What should I do???!!!

Sarah

Answer #1

I’m lactating now… & he still refuses to get a test for me… & I cant go get my own test for a lot of reasons, 1. I cant drive, I don’t have a license. 2.He has all the $ in his bank account, I have No way to access his account. & 3. I don’t have any friends in the state I live in… So I couldn’t have a friend take me…

There isn’t anything I can do… I’m just going to have to hope I have to go to the Dr. SOON for something…Anything, before I end up going into labor while at home alone… There are a few times I end up being home alone & we didn’t have the $$ to pay our phone bill… & the point that we live in the middle of know were doesn’t help either… I could die if something is wrong & I go into labor…

Answer #2

You should sit your husband down and make sure he knows that you didn’t do it on your own! The longer you wait, the more at risk you are putting yourself and your baby. Go to the doctor! BTW: people get pregnant even when they do use protection, so just don’t tell your parents that you were having unprotected sex?

Answer #3

you can get pregnant from pre cum (it still contains sperm) and it’s your body. Why don’t you go buy a pregnancy test? You shouldn’t leave it up to him, you’re both adults.

It’s very likely that you are pregnant…it’s been about a year since the depo provera for you (woman can take anything from 6 mnths to a year to get pregnant after the depo shot) so you are out of that wating zone.

Oh and if you are pregnant, the longer you wait to find out the more you are putting YOU and YOUR baby at risk…you’ll need to go for check ups and get on pre-natal vitamins.

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