I don't have special feelings for him!

He is a very nice guy, we met in abt 2 weeks ago, we’re at the same college, we used to spend time together talkin and he always send me messages.but I don’t feel like I love him and have special feelings for m, First I thought we’re just friends but then I found out that he loves me, I really don’t know what to say to him, I feel if I tell him he’ll be soooo disappointed and I don’t want to let him down? so I’m really lost and I donno what to do?

Answer #1

Dear schmetterling, After 2 weeks I’m sure he is more in lust with you than love. If you are uncomfortable with him now after hearing these rumors then a heart to heart talk with him is in order. It is sad if we hurt others but you would hurt him more if you continued the relationship allowing him to believe you have more feelings for him than you do. You both are adults and need to have adult conversations with each other. That means being upfront and honest with each other. If he does confess his love for you tell him your flattered but unable to return those feelings. He will surely respect you for your honesty. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

You have to be honest with him, and 2 weeks isnt enough time to fall inlove with someone, so he prob just has a crush on you. I no its hard to tell people you dont think of them in that way, but if you dont and lead him on it will be so much worse for example if you get another bf and he was thinking things were starting to happen between you. You have to be honest from the start, it sucks but he deserves the truth. Tell him you dont think of him in that way.

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