How can I get over him, once and for all?

i went throught something like that but u should get over it boys suck just like my mom said and just like how all mothers say . what u should do is try to relax and be with family and friends so u can forget about him i forgot about my ex that way and u should to .

well, have u every talked to him about how he treats u or how u feel about him. even though ull probably damn near cry just talking to him about it , u hsould just talk to him and get it over with trust me It’’ll be worth it in the long run. he is aguy, he probably doesn’t even relize wat he’s doing trust me I have a friend who use to be like that

my girl i tell u u should let your tears down but after that tell yourself is a brand new start even i am a guy i also can’t stand this kind of guy who blow hot and cold

The operative word in that sentence was a boy.I have lived through 17 years of abuse and I am only in my early 40’s and those words still ring in my ears from my own past. You deserve to be loved and treated with dignity, believe me my husband does not trat me with any respect and i should never have goten married but he was pulling me out an abusive relationship and I finally said what the hell and got married. That was not a good enough reason and my self esteem has suffered more than ever. Take your time and find the one who will treat you the way a lady shouold be treated and I really do know that at this moment those words do not help you but cry throw a few things and get on with your business and he may just what he messed up. Good Luck