I am the lamest person ever -___-

So right now im having an “ I dont want to grow up” break down :/ I’ve always been the one to not wanna grow up. Ever since I was like 7 I randomly start crying when I think abt the future its scares me it just does. I mean I’ve always wanted to start having kids like at 18 or 19(DONT JUDGE ME -.-)and get married and have a good job but now that I come closer to that age I just want to go back. I see life in other people and I see how hard it is and how much you struggle. Im like really serious abt this like who can I get help from or who can I see? Do I have like a phobia towards change? Also the thought of being without my parents or not having them around like gives me anxiety attacks :/

(I made like a trillion typos sorry I just can type right now)

Answer #1

It’s completely natural. No one wants to grow up. Adults are kids that owe people money.

Answer #2

I was a lot like you, especially with my parents. I would get really anxious when I would think about moving out of my moms. I got pregnant when I was 18. moved out when I was 19 and there was about a week where I was homesick and missed my mom but after that its cake. its normal to be anxious about change. its a scary thing but everything will be ok. you have to accept that your life will go on and things will be fine as long as you live day by day and make the right decisions for the day. Life is hard but you’ll get through it. And every struggle you face and conquer will make you a stronger person. And no I don’t think you have a phobia towrds change. My sister does the same thing and its a comfort issue. She finds comfort in things that she’s familiar with. She has mild OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) OCD is just a whole bunch of ways that people cope with their anxiety. You may have it and it’s ok, there are plenty of counselors who specialize in treating that. Don’t worry. I really hope this helped you =)

Answer #3

Same! Yourr Not The Only One :] But Theres Nothing Stopping It From Happening :[

Answer #4

babe;; I bet EVERYBODY feels like that at some point of their life. I have felt that plenty of times and im asking myself “what will I ever do without my parents?!” It’s normal. completly. (:

Answer #5

Wow.Thats the same exact thing that happens to me…Like literally I break down and cry and cry when I think about growing up and when I think about not having my grandma or grandpa or dad or mom or anyone I just like have a heart attack I don’t know

Answer #6

Your not lame I am 19 and have a kid and I love her to death but I wish I could go back to when I was younger…we all miss our youth and we all cry because we know we cant get it back. older people probably cry more than us those are the ones that really miss their youth… if they cry about it then you def arent lame.

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