I'm only 16 and I can't keep an erection long enough to

I've been sexually active for a long time but just started haveing sex a few months ago. We start fooling aorund rubbing each other and such throught he clothes, then we go to the bedroom for privacy, when we get all of our clothes off I loose my erection, or It's not completely hard and I can't get it back up, how do I stop this… and not only that I'm not 100% sure where to stick it and that combined with "soft" hard on makes it impossible, shortly after I completely loose my hard on… please help my….my g/f loves sex…

Answer #1

"I've been sexually active for a long time but just started haveing sex a few months ago."

How is this possible?

Answer #2

I've been fooling around with oral and dry sex but never "all" the way, I would appreciate it if you would only post if you have help and not to criticise

Answer #3

Dude!!! Relax…that,s the key. u might get a lil nervous and stress often cause ED. try to be confident about it don’t stress over it it won’t help. Another thing, i probably shouldn’t be telling u this but try some Porn. Start browsing thru some porn, get an erection start masturbating but don’t finish, not at least till the 3rd or 4th time. this will help u “train” ur penis. Before u know it u’ll keep it hard and last for ever. Let me know if my coment helped out.

Answer #4

First of all, don't feel like you are the only one with this problem. The same thing happened to my boyfriend when i lost my virginity. He was very hard at first and then it seemed like he got nervous and lost it. So i told him ot relax and i gave him a hand job. As soon as he started to relax he bacame hard again. If relaxing doesn't work maybe you are masturbating too much, that can effect how hard you get during sex. Good luck and if my advice doesn't help ask your girlfriend for advice-honesty is the best key in a healthy sexual relationship

Answer #5

your just getting way too nervous. look at an anatomy chart to figure out just where that shit goes. there are really only two choices.

Answer #6

im 14 and I masterbate but im always afraid of my parents walking in on me while im doing it! where else can I do it?any tips?

Answer #7

im having the same problemm!! nedd helpp..

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