How can I pop my hymen?

How can I pop my hymen? Im looking to get it over with so that I can lose my virginity without sever pain! Help please!!!

Answer #1

my first time wasn’t that painful. I mean it hurt a little bit but not as bad as most people say it does. just make sure whoever your first time is with that you really care about them and they really care about you. and as long as you go slow and don’t try to hurry and get it over with it shouldn’t hurt that bad and if you’ve ever used tampons you probably wont bleed and if you do it wont be that much.

Answer #2

Actually, whitechocolate, it’s not almost always painful. You should NEVER try to damage any part of your genitalia with some foreign object- sterilized or not- unless you have a medical degree. That’s foolish and asking for pain and infection. Try explaining THAT to your doctor or parents. It’s only painful if you don’t go slow at first, if a person is raped, if the girl is very small, or if you try to DELIBERATELY tear it. Losing your virginity isn’t severely painful, and most girls don’t even bleed if the guy goes slowly enough at first, giving it a chance to STRETCH and not tear. To be honest, a lot of females have torn or stretched their hymens out, on their own and without knowledge, inserting tampons, riding bikes as kids, or through exploration of that particular part of your anatomy.
If you have sex with somebody who you love, and who loves you (so they care about how you are feeling), and you’re relaxed, not rushing it, and there is enough foreplay for lubrication, there’s a really good chance that your first time will not be painful, and you wont bleed. When you take advice from teens (the majority of whom get their expertise from their teen friends and their over-active imaginations) you’re doomed to be misinformed.

Answer #3

No Matter what you do, the tearing of the Hymen is almost always painful. No matter if done by Sexual Intercourse or otherwise, it will still be painful. There are nerves that still will be torn and you will still bleed and be sore. Just bare that in mind before you try. And if you do try, make sure that whatever you use. Sterilize it with rubbing alcohol or boiling water before hand. That said, make sure you do NOT use any type of sharp objects! Good Luck.

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