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How will we ever be the same??

I recently went out with a guy from work to a concert, it was just as friends, his date bailed at the last minute and I wasn’t busy that night. So we went and had a blast, we clicked really well, it was a genuine good time.. Well afterwards we went back to his place to hang out. well really we went to bug his roomate (who I sort of had a crush on) but he wasnt home so we hung around and ended up in his bedroom well one thing led to another and we had sex.. I mean it was great, but neither of us were expecting this and now I dont know how this will effect us as friends.. we haven’t talked about it yet and I dont know if we will but im just not sure how to play this off at work… my plan is to just act normal like nothing happened but things I think will be akward… hmmm such drama!

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Since you thought it was great… are you interested in pursuing an actual relationship with him? If so, it may wreck your friendship, yes.

You can’t go to work tomorrow and pretend like nothing happened. You’re an adult - start acting like one. You need to clarify with him what it meant, if he was slightly interested in you or if it was a glorious but meaningless one-night stand. After all, you guys work at the same place. Avoidance doesn’t work.

Use his answer to decide your next move. That’s all.

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