How will ignoring my boyfriend make him show affection ?

Ok so , my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now & its beyond complicated. I dont even know what to do or how to act around him anymore, when im nice to him & do things for him he doesnt appreciate it at all…and when I ask him questions to why he doesnt answer my calls or something stupid like that , he tells me to shutup and stop questioning me or ill leave you. Im in a rutt and I dont know what to do anymore, I understand that I am too attached with him, he knows he has me 100% id spend all my time with him if I could , and I think thats what makes him treat me like dirt, because I let him ? … Willl ignoring him or not being “there” for him all the time make him wanna be with me?

Answer #1

and also he breaks up with me ALL the time, over ridiculous argurments that any other couple would laugh about, and then he will get his number changed, or he will tell me to never talk to him again and ignore all my phone calls , so when I stop contacting him and move on . about 4 days later he emails me or calls me and says he loves me and wants to spend his life with me and that he cant picture being with another girl , and then I believe him every single time bc hes finally showing me he cares and thats what I want from him , this is an ongoing thing its been happening every month for at least 8 or 9 months of the relationship now… as of right now we are not broken up or anything , its just he is being so moody and and acting as if he cant stand me right now ,

Answer #2

it kinda sounds like he has another girl. you should dump him. if he tells you to shut up he could probly say or do a lot worse

Answer #3

my family and friends tell me the same thing … they tell me to avoid him …to do to him what he does to me but im not like that , I know im too nice to him I wish I could give him a taste of his own medicine im just attached to him… I guess its because he gives me no attention that it makes me want him moreee and more bc im wondering why doesnt he want me? it makes me try harder but I KNow that I shouldnt have to try and get my boyfriends attention

Answer #4

You may not realize it now because of wishful thinking but this is an abusive relationship. A good relationship involves give and take but it sounds like you are doing all the giving and he is doing all the taking. Do not let anyone treat you like that! You are too good for someone that treats you that way! It will take a while for you to get over him I understand but you deserve to bee in a loving relationship that he wants to talk to you and he is okay with answering any questions you have because honesty in a relationship is SO important. Good luck!

Answer #5

It’s not that complicated. You’re just dating a jerk. Playing mind games will not make him less of a jerk. Playing mind games never accomplishes anything other than make you a jerk, too.

If you’re not happy in your relationship, find another relationship. Life is too short and there are too many other options to suffer through something so frustrating and lackluster.

Answer #6

Girl first of all why are still with him if he treats you like dirt? ethier way whether you ignore him or not it’s still going to be the same obuiosly he doesn’t want to be with you if he doesn’t answer your calls srry hun I think you’re going to have to move on to someone better than him. I know it’s going to be hard but you really don’t deserve that you better than that.

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