How we make it if we go seperate schools and my parents disapprove?

This may be a common topic but im lost completely. My boyfriend and I of 3 years are now at seperate schools on a little island of the pacific. Of course we see eachother now and then but only a few times of school breaks or extended weekends. We have been very on and off back in middle school because of his lack of commitment and outsiders trying to interfere attempting to take us away from eachother. Now we are in high school and its more difficult than I thought. We have awkward silences on the phone and when we finally do see eachother we just connect physically ; making out etc. I hate that we can not have more exciting fun but before I continue I should say we do love eachother very much and it hurts both of us deeply if we even think about seperating. This would probably be the 10th time weve went back to the couple status. Another complication is my parents absolutely despise him. They do not even want his name mentioned in the house. So that makes it even worse for when we do see eachother that we have to keep it on the down low. I hate this. I do love him a lot but hence the different school thing im starting to admire other guys. One thing I was afraid would happen but I assure you I never even considered cheating on him or any boy. Im on a chain of love. It also doesnt help that he feels hes ready to settle down with me being his 6th girlfriend but he is my 1st. Everything I do makes him smile with happiness and adoration. He 100% loves me and I feel the same but we both have had recently near break ups because of the fact that we just have nothing to talk about anymore. He feels its his fault were silent but I think its either the 3 years are affecting us now or not being able to be together. Some days I feel like I want a break from him but others I just want him to hold me and tell me how much he loves me. I dont understand .. Please help me get back to reality and on track. Right now we agreed to give it another shot . Please let me know of your ideas, theories or opinions ..