What do you think of him, did he ever love me?

He lied at least I think… Because he yold me he loved me and. I always felt so suspicious of him so it was hard for me tosay it back he proposed, and I said no the day before his birthday next day he had a girl friend … It seems like shes his world and stuff just like he claimed I was, now theyre engaged… Did he really ever love me? What do you think of him?

Answer #1

‘I always felt so suspicious of him so it was hard for me tosay it back’ ‘he proposed, and I said no’

so basically, what you’re saying is, you thought he was going to cheat. So you kept him at arms length and pushed him away. You didnt trust him, you really hurt him by saying no. And then he went out and found someone who trusted him enough to say yes? Wow. Can you say self fulfilling prophecy? Guess what, you think all guys are untrustworthy. And all you are going to find is untrustworthy guys. Because it’s all you’re going to see no matter what. And even if they arent, you’re going to push them away and then say, see I told you so! Think about it. I think the poor guy was really delusional if he thought he could get past your obvious trust issues. I think he got smart, and stopped trying. Seriously, you need to examine your issues around guys. Because you’re going to continue to run into the same problem. And the sad part is, you dont get it…

Answer #2

okay, well, I second zackixxx’s opinion bout the love part, but maybe he was just with that new girlfriend because he was hurt and he wanted to make you jealous or something. I mean, you said no, right?

Answer #3

I don’t know really about the love thing but you said no to his proposly and you should’ve added how long did he have this new girl friend? funmail me if you need more detailed answer

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