how to tell my ex-boy friend to leave me alone?

He won’t ignore you as I see it…

The best way is to give him want he wants - then use the time together as way of making yourself undesirable in his eyes.

It’s like this - he’s good at arguing right? Words and reason would be useless against some windbag like him: it’ll only excite him more to the challenge of torturing you. From how you describe him, he’s what we consider as a power-tripper - the sort who gets a kick out of dominating people.

The best way is to demonstrate your point that you don’t want him by being un-want -able yourself.

Do things that’ll make him cringe: be clingy (smother him with too much love, demand sex from him everyday - something like that), be inattentive of your appearance at the right moment (be smelly, start gaining weight - stuff like that), be selfish (if ever you want to primp yourself, you’re doing it for your new man - so I also suggest to start looking for a new guy), etc.

I know what I’m saying can be shocking but it takes patience and sacrifice to get what you want. You can’t lose a guy easily in 10 days - it’ll take much more than that. Maybe two or three months - give or take.

If ever he would change tactics and start to seemingly change his ways, I suggest you don’t give in. People like them manipulate others in a subtle way and are thus dangerous to be around with. The very instant you find an opportunity to cut him off from you, do it.

It would be better that way - at least both of you would be happy in the long run… .