How can I tell my parents I have a boyfriend?

You have to tell them when there together because it can start a argument other wise. because if you tell one of them then you will be going behind the other ones back and this will upset them so just sit down and talk to them about it. Hope this helps.

If your Mom is gentler, go to mom first. Then she may have ideas how or “when” to tell your Dad.

I need help as well T_T ok well I have a boyfirend and we’re both only 13 and I know its not gonna last like forever but I like him a lot should I just tell my parents about him ? as a asian teenager my mom’s uptight and EVERYTHING she won’t even let me go to the library with my firends… what should I do ? T_T

okay im in jr high 1st yr and I asked my dad in 3rd grade when can I start dating and he said why and I was like because I really like this boy and he wants to ask me out and before he does I want to get aprovile from you and he said I’ll alow you to start dating as long as nothing bad happens and ever since then I’ve been aloed to date

I think how you should tell your parents is this: sit them down and say mom dad I have something very important to tell you, and if they ask what is it, then you say well first of all do you promise not to get mad? and if they say no then tell them, all you have to say is this mom dad this really cute/hot boy asked me out and I really like him and I said yes! and if they get mad at you then all you have to say is I thought you guys promised not to get mad! and then try to calm them down and just tell them if my grades go down or something like that then I will tell my boyfriend we need some time off and then if he askes why then just tell him: hey the reason why we need to take some time apart from each other is because I promised my mom and dad if my grades went down when I had a boyfriend then we will not see each other until I have my grades back up! (if you need to then take grades out and plug something else in!)

well my daddy he wont let mi do anything not even sleepover my familys house or something.. but I love him and I know that if I dont tell him sooner or later he will find out and it will be worst and its really going to hert him and make him not trust mi so I would just try to slowly tell him and if he say no or hell no and starts yellin just say okay dont argue with him it will make things worst just tell him because you know its going to be worstif he finds out by him self sooo gewd luck wish you the best!!:]

Tell them that you you trust them and that you know that they don’t allow you to have one but you promise to be mature about it. Sit them down and tell them this, and explain that you have a boyfriend and promise not to slack and to not have sex etc. you know, all the things parents dont like. good luck.

well when I told my parents I had a boyfriend I told my mom first and she talked to my dad and they said it was alright so you need to learn to trust your parents no matter what bc you dont want to get a bad thing started and something happenes so you need to tell your parents but you might want t ogo to your mom first!!! anyways I hope for the best good luck

well this question is hard to answer because i don’t know your age.

i’m assuming that you are to younge to have a boyfriend since, if you were old enough you wouldn’t be worrying about what mommy and daddy had to say about it. what’s the worse they could do?

sneak behind their backs

it is very simple first of all tell your mom she went through the same thing and will understand(most of the time) anyway the tough part is telling dad have mom for back up tell him that you are old enough and you really like this guy then get mom to back you up and eventually he will say yes

I kinda have a problem like this im in high school year 11 and this guy im going out with is in the same year . I wanna tell my dad but I cant because he screws when I even mention a guys name :S . I also go to a lot a party that means staying out over night and I dont wanna get stopped from going to them because off what my dad might think im doing :( . I dont know what to do HELP please :(

Sometimes the “parents” aren’t just whackos… sometimes they actually do KNOW what they are talking about…and since you have already decided to go behind their back and go out with this boy, then you need to be responsible enough to just tell them… It’s always easier to talk to the one you are closest to…mom is my outlet in which I tell her mostly everything…but, it’s always different in different families…just sit her down and calmly explain your dilemma…(remember, if you start yelling about how mature you are, then it makes you look like a little kid, sometimes, you just have to sit there and take it)… Tell her/him, that you feel like you are mature enough to be able to handle a boyfriend…give examples of how you are responsible…(ex: how you clean the house every day, how you come home when you’re supposed to, how you call when you’re going ot be late). GIVE THEM A REASON to trust you, and remember, if they say no, then it’s OVER…just accept it, and explain your point in a couple months, or something…if you keep riding them about it, or you keep saying “WHY WHY WHY??” they are only going to get frustrated and convinced that you are most certaintly not ready…just take some time if they say no, and DON”T FIGHT BACK! just say “okay”…and tell you boyfriend, that you two will be able to be together, but not yet, because your parents don’t want you too…everything happens for a reason…

Good luck

<3jaymie

I have the same problem. I never really knew how to tell my mom I have a boyfriend. I’m only thirteen so my realationships aren’t going to be going very far. I would tell my parents but why bother? we aren’t going to do anything anyway. we hug in school and kiss now and again. I remember telling my mom about my boyfriend in fifth grade. I just sat down with her and said mom, this guy asked me out and I never had a boyfriend. my friends convinced me to say yes and so I did. and I actually like him. and she thought it was okay. I don’t know if this helps but this is just my side of the question.