How to make more friends when everybody thinks you are a loser?

Having friends is important, yes, but too many young people put too much emphasis on it. Many try to evaluate their own “self worth” by how many friends they have. As you get older, your values change in regards to the issue as you mature more.

If you are seriously looking for some “real” friends and not just a popularity contest to see who can get the most friends… then you have to like, and be yourself, first. If you put on an image that you think people will like, or you try to be more than you really are… then, in the end, you are not attracting the people who value honesty and a real friendship. You can project an image to others of who you “really” are… or you can project an image to others of who you “think” they may be attracted to. Both images will attract friends. But , in short, nobody likes to be lied to… and to be yourself will attract true friends who will sincerely like you for who you “are” and not like you for who you “are not”. Let people like you for who you really are. Not everyone in the world will always be your friend, but a true friend will be a person who can accept you for who you are. If you have a tendency to rate your self worth by your friends, then remember the old saying that says something like … “successful is the person in life if when they die there stands one true friend at the funeral”.