How to let go

My mom won’t let me go anywhere and I hate it I am not aloud to go no were never have been and it is hard I know I am only 13 in all but wtf. I went out one time this whole school year I got kicked out 3 months after school started got in hella to many fights but I took full advantage when I went out that one time because I feel that if my mom would let me out more often I wouldn’t of had to take full advantage. we fight constantly over the stupidest things and she always has to pick me apart I hate it when she tells me how to dress and how to do my hair. but over all she does let me wear makeup and have piercings. I have my lip and nose pierce she lets me have freedom in the wrong things I want freedom with friends you know and I have 4 brothers and 3 step bros and I am not aloud to even speak with boys and I been sneaking out like 3 times a week to see my boyfriend anthony that I been with since 10-28-08 I hate keeping him a secret I mean I met his family and I am scared of telling my family of him. but how do I convince my mom of letting go and should I say anything about my boyfriend?

Answer #1

She probably doesn’t let you go anywhere because you already have too much freedom with your appearance, you got kicked out of school, and you get into fights. -.-

Answer #2

sweetie my son is 16 and he has the same complaints about me. I know whats out there, I know what can happen and if there’s 1 thing I’ve learned about life is anything can happen. I love my son so much! I don’t know what life would be like without him and I never want to find out. I dont think your mom is doing it to be mean. she loves you and she’s trying to do whats best for you. I remember I had the same gripes and my mom said “wait till youre a mom you’ll see” and she was right.

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