How to hold on to our future even though his new baby has arrived

well I’m 14 years old and I have a boyfriend that is 17, he just has had a baby by his ex which the baby was conceived before me and him officially got together..it extremely hurts me to know this and deal with the whole baby thing when we have a future to have our own family.how should I deal with the whole situation?

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Answer #1

if you love him, it will work, but you are only 14, you have you hole life ahead, why let something liek this get in the way?

Answer #2

your only 14 you shouldnt even be thinking about haveing a family yet and as for the boyfriend… once again your 14 you shouldnt be dealing with a guy who has a kid

Answer #3

You’re 14 you’re young. Don’t start thinking about having a family with this guy. You never know how long it will last. A guy shouldn’t be the biggest part of your life at 14. Worry about things that are important school, family, friends. I’m not saying don’t have a boyfriend but don’t be so serious at such a young age. You can’t really do anything about this situation because he has a baby and that won’t go away. You just have to accept it. I don’t think you should be hurt that he had a child. It was before you two were together so it’s not like he did it to hurt you. He did something stupid he has to take responsibility for his actions. It may have been a mistake but it won’t go away. You just have to accept it.

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