How to help with my shyness?

Okay well im a very shy person at times and I dont know how to self talk to myself so I wont be shy… Especially at school & at the gym I wont use the machines near this really hot guy that lifts weights because he stares at me and I get all clumsy…if anyone can help me be more outgoing & care less what people might say or think about me? I would really appreciate it thankyou =d

Answer #1

Hey sorry I dont have a pic up yet but anyway. about you being shy, I know this is hard but just dont do it. be assertive and forward with people especially the intimidating ones(the hot guy in gym) Go up to him and in a non aggressive way say if you like what you see so much how come you never speak to me? if im just eye candy than I would appreciate it if you would stop objectifying me. do this when hes in front of all his friends it will change his attitude quite a bit. remember that guys are mean for the most part especially the young ones that everyone thinks are hot, I dont know why they just are. when you approach him keep that in mind, he might say something mean but stand your ground he is just reacting that way because hes not used to being confronted and because he probably likes you. anyway You from what I can tell are an extremely gorgeous woman you should be confident in atleast that much. And from your questions and your profile you seem sweet so just be you and be happy with who you are and dont worry about what people think. there are lots of stupid people in the world you cant go through life worrying about them.

Answer #2

try to build a confidence by thinking good things about yourself, honestly I use to be this really shy girl I hated being in huge groups and would rather stay at home with my head stuck in a book then go with my friends to meet new people , not to mention I would freeze up around guys and the most I ever did was nod. So like I was saying it starts with confidence and believe me if you believe you are a pretty out going person you will most likely become more confident in yourself , and don’t worry what others think of you if they judge you without getting to know you then there not worth it , in life your going to find people who like you for you not just cause you got a pretty face. So lift you head up and try new things, cause thinking confident will lead to feeling confident.

Answer #3

a good looking girl like you shy. . ? no I dont think so. .. ! if you can have your boobs hannging out like dis dem im sure your just doing this to get a blokes attention

Answer #4

Well hey! I used to be the same way…around really good looking girls I would feel like I would have to try to be the coolest guy there is…its really simple though…I finally started getting over that sort of thing when I just stopped caring what people think about me…you just have to have the confidence that even if people do not like you, your not gonna change who you are…so if you think this guy is really hott or whatever, just be yourself, don’t do anything different, if your yourself and he doesn’t like it, theres plenty of other dudes out there for ya, good luck!

Answer #5

Thankyou =] your such a help

Answer #6

you could try a social anxiety support group. they’ll help you to deal with these issues.

Answer #7

I feel your pain

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