How to go to your friends house when your mom said no?

She said no, no means no. She’s your mother, you should respect her wishes. Next time she askes you to perform a task, you should smile and do it, no questions asked. keep in mind that when a good deed is done, it will be rewarded. Cleaning your room is something you should do, regaurdless of getting something in return. It’s your room, you don’t want it to look like a tornado hit, do you?:) Also, sneaking around is just going to not only upset her, thus putting you further into trouble, it will cause her to lose trust in you as well. That’s the last thing you want. Once trust is gone, it will take a very long time to attempt to gain it back. She’s your mother, love and respect her as such. ;)

You clean your room up and ask your mom if there is anything else she would like done before you are allowed to go. If she still wont let you go you say ok, and tell your friend another day. I say this because your Mom sounds like she wants you to show some responsibility with your own stuff. Showing that you can be helpful and respectful of your moms wishes will give you more freedom in the future. Just try it, with a smile and a happy attitude.

Simply clean your room. (Without your mom having to yell at you to do it.) AND DON’T BE SNARKY! Once snarkyness kicks in, your mom automatically has the upper hand.

well you didnt clean up your room and while your living in her house, you need to follow her rules if you cleaned up your room she probably would have let you go but you didnt, so you dont deserve a reward tell your friend you cant come over today for today you should clean our room and maybe ask if you can go to her house tomorrow

exactly :) just clean your room and surprise her with another few chores done too. you’d have more of a chance!