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How do I get my ex-girlfriend back?

well me and my girl friend broke up yesterday. i was very hurt and sad cause with both told eachother promised that we would always be together and we promised God too. the main reason why we broke up i think is that well my mom decided to go on a vacation for a month to california and she told me i could go or stay a month at my girl friends house and of course i choose girl friends house. for the month i was there we were getting along just great but we did get in some arguments but every relationship has arguments. we were together for almost a year. i remember her saying that she wouldnt break up with me over silly arguments. and thats what we were having, silly arguments. but we got over them. last night she called me and said “i think we should break up, were not meant to be” that hurt me so much, i just felt like crying. i do have something else to say. about the first month or two we were dating she broke up with me 2 times, but then about 2 days later she said “i miss you” and wanted to go back out with me. and our relationship was perfect. we had so much fun together and we saw eachother everyday at school and on the weekends. we told eachother that we would get married someday and our future together was good. and ill admit we both saw eachothers special places but we didnt bang each other, cause we were going to save that till marraige. she said that u can only see me naked only if u promise to never break up with me. that was i promise that i knew i was going to keep. cause i loved this girl so much. so the real question is. is it over for good? do you think she will want me back?

oh i forget. yesterday i did talk to her mom about the whole thing. she said that her daughter still like/loved me, but she was tired of all the arguing that we were doing.

do u think there still is a chance?

her mom also said that i shouldnt call her but wait for her to call me. is that a good idea?

someone, anyone please help me

thanks so much

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Answer #1

Hey andrech, My boyfriend and I promised each other we were going to stay together and love each other also;; we made it sure to ourselves that we were serving god through our relationship. Also its good that you guys waited we however didnt. We broke up about 4months ago over silly arguements also and now we’re back together. You just have to remind her that the promises means something to you and that its breaks your heart that she doesnt remember or want to keep them. A relationship has arguements- all of them! Dont let anything like that keep you away from each other;; just opoligize straight away and admit your wrong.

Hope this helped, let me know how it goes, Gail .

Answer #2

Well firsf of all I don’t know how old you tow are but if you are young then both of you will be going through alot of changes. Not to say that you can’t be together just saying it’s going to be a battle. Anyway the mom is right stop calling her let her have time. She may be very confused. And as far as arguing goes will that may not be all as simple as you may think. They add stress no matter how small or how big. Alot of things get said and sometimes they are not that easy to get over. First things first stop calling when you see her keep it simple like “hey how are you” never bring up the past or the promises and never tell her how much you miss her that will only add pressure to her and that will only push her away. If she calls you keep it positive and short if you find yourself wanting to tell her i miss you i love you why then you simply say “hey it’s been great talking to you but can you call me back later tonight?” If the girl feels that you are giving her her space and letting her figure things out then she will be thankful. And trust me it will be hard because I’ve had to do this but keeping a positive attitude and keeping it short and simple it worked I waited for him to call me and then in time I’d be online and he’d IM me asking me what I was doind and if he could come see me. Good LUCK

Answer #3

I have to disagree with lilmissrawkstar on something she said> “Dont let anything like that keep you away from each other”. This situation is only one-sided here. Her mom isnt keeping you both from seeing each other, your ex is the one that doesnt want to see or talk to you. Remember..shes the one that broke up. I think her mom gave you good advice..if she wants to talk to you, then let her do it on her own!! Dont keep trying to figure out ways to talk to her, because its only gonna stir up more arguements. Give her space..if she wants to contact you, im sure she’ll know how!

Yes its true, Every couple has arguments. But if your arguments are over stupid things, it generally means the relationship isn’t the best. When the two of you feed off of each others attitude and make life difficult for others, that is a sign that you should end the relationship. If it doesn’t make you happier, feel better, and content, it’s not worth having.

After awhile petty arguing gets really old. Alot of people just dont want unnecessary drama in their life!

Answer #4

I agree with angel. Maybe your ex will come back, maybe not. Either way, your life is not over. You can go on without her. Give her space. If she wants to come back, she will probably let you know.

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