How to get them to f*** off?

There’s a lot of family drama going on right now. My mom had an affair and that resulted in a separation of my parents. Today, I found out that my dad is dating who I consider to be like an aunt to me (though we are not related in any way). So I feel betrayed by both of them. My brother is a f* up who won’t move out, so my parents stress on that. It’s a huge mess and yeah.

My parents are always asking me how I feel. Today, me and my dad were at dinner and he dropped the bomb on me that he was dating again and then he asked me how I felt after. I didn’t say anything, not at all. I think I’ve said about two words to him since then, and that was hours ago. He also said that I can like Stan(not his real name, but it’s the guy my mother was having an affair with) and that I won’t hurt his feelings. Seriously, why would I like that home wrecker?

Anyway, I never answer those kinds of questions. I’ve become some what of a mute around my family, because they are driving me wonky! I never voice my opinion on anything. Yes, I do realize I have problems expressing my feelings to people. I don’t trust my parents, it’s hard for me to trust people and they lost it from all of the times they have lied to my face. The only person I can trust is my best friend , and she is unavailable at the moment.

I am just about ready to tell them all to f* off and leave me alone. It’s getting me angry. How do I let them know that I don’t care to talk about it…or to them in general, without really saying much of anything? Sorry if this question is impossible to answer.

And as a little PS, I am not looking for your sympathy, just advice.

Please&thank you.

Answer #1

I agree with sweetymeaty, just let them know that you need your space and when your ready to talk about it then you will come to them.

I personally have great difficulty expressing my emotions, its not easy to talk about how you feel, especially if the other person is looking at you at the time, but trust me, if you leave these things bottled up for too long they can come out in funny ways. you need to find a release in one form or another or you will crack and they will all come pouring out, its not healthy to keep it all bottled up. Goodluck with it all, what your going through sux, that’s for sure.

Answer #2

You should just tell them that you would like some space and your time and that you just dont feel like discussing all the situations and you just want to relax…

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