How to get pregnant if sex isnt working?

I guess I can see where you are coming from crazy123, although I did not see the part where she said she wanted to have it for her boyfriend. I have read her posts over again, and nowhere do I see her saying she wanted to have it ‘for him’. She clearly says ‘with him’. Two different things.

It is absolutely fine that you don’t understand how a younger person would want to settle down and start a family. However, to voice your opinion in such a manner is an insult to all of the young people who were ready and have successfully done so. They do exist, and without emotional insecurities.

umm im doin this for mostly myself and my boyfriend whats it too..and im emotionally fine so yu could keep your smart comment to yur self and thanx @charteusechik =]

I realise that I was doing that, but I find it difficult to understand how anyone who is that young would want children for anything other than emotional insecurities and the fact that she mentioned she is doing it for her boyfriend kind of substantiates that point. I wasn’t making a general assumption without reading the info first.

Crazy123. My point was is that you’re making general assumptions about this person that came across quite brash. No one is perfect, and to assume that someone has emotional issues is a little too judgmental and tasteless IMO. I’m sure you didn’t mean it that way, but thats how it came across to me. That is what I meant by giving her a break.

thank yu she really don’t knOw me at all to making those remarks im young but im not dumb, I go to school and within 2 years I will have a degree in criminal justice and the father has good income so money is not the problem..me not being able ton have kids is the big question in which ii wud have to find out on my own since you guy cnt give me any advice.

Are you serious? You’re 19 and want a child already? Have you thought this through? You could have a life and a career you know, you don’t have to have a child with your boyfriend right now. It certainly sounds like you are trying to fulfill some sort of emotional need with a child. Poor baby.

In any case, we can’t guess why it isn’t working. Only a doctor or fertility expert can do that. Make an appointment.

Crazy123, she may be a bit young, but who says having a family is not a ‘life’. Why do you assume that she has some emotional issues just because she wants a child? Thats an awfully large mouthful to say about someone you don’t even know! I don’t think that is a fair assumption at all. Give the kid a break!

ii don’t need any lectures..my baby would be well taken care of and ii would still have a career and ii just wanted to know if my problem sounded weird or im just over thinking things.

Its not always as easy to get pregnant as many people think. Sometimes couples try for months or even years before they succeed. You should try going to your OBGYN to discuss if you may have any fertility issues. Perhaps your doctor will refer you to a fertility clinic.

woman to woman . It’s cute that you want a baby from this guy. But you need to really think some things over. Like what if some day you just end up being just OTHER baby Mommom! and if he wants the baby as bad as you do and loves you as much as you LOVE him than why not put a Ring on it. Ask him and see what he tells You.

ii hope ii don’t have a problem or ii wud really be up set but thanks for the help guys

yea but he doesnt love her anymore dats just his babymother..but ii still help with my problem..

Already a baby with someone else, no marriage…that tells you nothing ?