How can I get my ex back?

None of those are true indications that she still likes you “that way”. Shes acting like a friend, and nothing more. Saying hi to your mom doesnt mean anything either…a few of my guy friends say that to my mom.

Now YOU check this out>you just said all that, then said, “ i started showing her my true feelings and i think it pushed her away”. Thats telling you everything right there. I dont think she realizes that by her “talking” to you, she is sending you mixed signals. She is only being nice, thats all it is, and at the same time giving you false hopes making you think she wants you.

You have to stop analyzing every little thing she does, or you are going to drive yourself crazy! Take a break and go spend some quality time with friends and family. Things may seem pretty bleak just now but in time you’ll find that you will heal yourself and be back to normal. New hobbies and pursuits can also be a useful distraction. You have to leave her alone, and move on. If she really wanted you back, she would have been in your arms already. What did you do before you met her? You had some kind of life, I am sure. Go back to it, and meet other women. Try and work on your self esteem. When you feel confident and good about yourself, others will be attracted to you. And, you will find that you don’t need to obsess over knowing where someone is all the time when you feel good about yourself.

Time does indeed heal all wounds.

Check it tho..she always answers my calls..and when i dont talk to her for a few days then finally call..she goes out of her way to answer it.

she also does lil things like i’ll talk to her on the phone and my mom will call me..she’ll say HI MOM

These past couple of days i messed up..it was coo us talking on the phone but i started showing her my true feelings and i think it pushed her away

angelfire2708 is right. Sorry dude, but you should pick up the remaining GOOD pieces of it, treasure them as memories and MOVE ON. She already broke your heart, there is no point to self-indulge anymore. Or perhaps you want me to nudge a hole in your skull with my thumb.

So go out there and meet new people. There are many great ladies out there that would appreciate your feelings.

Maybe this is YOUR dream, but it isnt hers. She has moved on with her life, and she is living it how SHE wants to, and not how YOU want her to! You two are no longer a couple. You can sit there and dwell on what used to be, but its not going to help you get her back!

You have NO control over someone elses behavior. If this is what she wants to do, then let her! She is your past, and you have to accept that as hard as it may be! Its obvious she no longer has feelings for you, and you have to accept that also! Did you ever hear the saying “People dont change. They just become more of who they really are”. Shes letting you know, that this is the life she wants…right now!!

I agree with angel. Nothing you said indicates that she likes you as anything more than a friend.