How to get her to back off?

Well, she is your mom and basically I think she will NEVER leave you alone. It sounds like maybe she doesn’t like Daniel because he broke your heart once before and she doesn’t want to see you like that again.

Try telling her that you are ready to give this relationship a 2nd chance and that if he breaks your heart again “oh well” that is life you will learn to move on. But right now being with Daniel makes you happy!

Yes it is your life and your choice … but don’t be too hard on your mom for trying to help you avoid something that may make you suffer! My dad was the same way so I understand you… but now that I am older and I am helping to raise my nephews … I understand a parents point of view also!

calm down and take it easy girl! Everything will be all right!

take care

I go through this everyday. she’s just trying to protect you because he has broken up with you before and doesn’t want to see you get hurt again. I would start bringing him around her more and show her that he has changed and isn’t going to break up with you again. Gradually over time she will realize that he is trying. I broke up with my boyfriend and we started talking again and I went to his house and tried talking to his mom telling her that I’m trying and I would never do that again. You can try and have him talk to her and tell her he changed.