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How to get her back?

ok for those of you who knew about my relationship. My girlfriend of over 2 mon. (65 days to be exact) broke up with me on friday! She said she just wants to be friends and thats why she broke up with me! Problem is that I realized that Im in love with her 110%! I want to get her back but how, I know its possible! She said she really was in love with me, so I know its possible for her to feel the same way again, but how can I move it along faster? I almost lost her once to some1, I dont want that to happen again!!

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Answer #1

Of course you wouldn’t want her to be with someone else. But that’s not up to you - if she has decided that she doesn’t want to be with you, you need to accept and respect that decision, no matter how unhappy it possibly makes you feel. She’s not going to stay with you, or or come back to you, just for your benefit if its not what she wants or is going to make her unhappy. And if you really love her, you wouldn’t want to do that to her either.

If you truly love her, you will still want her in your life, even as friends. You were friends before, I’m sure if you work at it you can still be really great friends. Otherwise, let her go…

Answer #2

Or she’s using the ‘just be friends’ line, because there’s some OTHER reason she ended the relationship. And pining over her will NOT make her come back, especially with mid-teens; you need to move on.

Actually, you probably shouldn’t hang around her much, even though you’re considered ‘friends’ …being around her will just make things difficult for you.

Distance yourself from her… its the only way for you to get over it.

Answer #3

Give her time If you push to hard you may end up pushing her away. I think its better to experience friendship first because you end up being a better couple in the end so just take things slow and Im sure she will realize that she needs you good luck

Answer #4
  1. we have been friends for over 3 years. 2. if I Ioved her id want to be with her, and I wouldnt want her to be with someone else!
Answer #5

She wants to just be friends- you need to respect her decision. If you really love her, you’ll just want her to be happy. And that means with or without you!

Answer #6

thanx everyone, I guess you all know wut its like to lose someone you love!

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