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How to convince her I am better?

I like a girl and she started dating this guy about 4 months ago. He had gone to a hotel party and got drunk and was going to call her and break up with her so he could have sex with a girl. She forgave him after awhle but she always tells me that she doesnt trust him. I have never liked the guy and we always get into arguments and have almost fought. Im trying to stop from doing that but how do I convince her that I am the better guy for her.

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Answer #1

Uh, this girl’s boyfriend cheated on her like that and she forgave him? And she keeps complaining to you that she doesn’t trust him but still doesn’t break up with him? Seriously, this girl sees the tension between you two and doesn’t do a thing about it. If she really liked you, she would have broken up with her so called boyfriend by now. Look, I understand that you care for her but respect yourself- don’t try to convince her that you’re the one. She should have seen that by now. Stay friends if you like her that much, but keep it cool. Don’t pay much attention to that boyfriend of hers and don’t beg her to spend time with you.

What you should know is that this girl is really clingy and has serious self-esteem issues if she is holding on to a boyfriend that clearly doesn’t care about her. So during the time she is hopelessly whiling away with her “boyfriend”, keep yourself open to other options- things will work out for the best.

Answer #2

im already prettty much her best friend but we can never hang out because all of the tension between her boyfriend and I

Answer #3

Try to be her best friend and let her know how you feel and tell her you will never hurt her…

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