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How to control my frustration when girls hit on my father?

My father is 16 years older than me.well both my parents are…don’t ask.lol.

He is extremely athletic tall and handsome looking man and is a kick boxer.well no not really his a businessman but he does kickboxing everyday so I kinda tell him thats what his occupation is.bahaha.

Anyways everytime I go to the city with him and we go into clubs or pubs to have a drink, there’s always some girl!!not to mention prostitutes,mature women and god forbid girls younger than I am!!!ahhhrggghhh!!! Who tries to hit on him.and it’s extremely frustrating for me!!#$#%^#…

I mean papa’s very kind man always polite and smiling,joking around like college guys but his daughter has a short fuse and sometimes I feel like stepping on their heels and telling them are you blind!!!can you see the ring!!!

Sometimes they mistaken me for his girlfriend because he looks younger than his age and they step right in between me when im talking to my own dad wtf??!!

I like tagging my cousin sister along because she’s usually the one to vent out her anger and I do enjoy watching those women get their hair pulled…

Anyways I am really frustrated my father’s usually going to tell them his happyly married or excuse me im talking to my two daughters but I can’t control my anger when I see that happen.because his so polite and friendly to them ahhhrghhh!!!#^%$&%#

I haven’t really spoken to my father about it I just come home and report straight to mama…I just feel angry that his actually politely talking to them…I wish he’d just say “back off b*h!

So how do I control my frustration when girls hits on my father?and is it normal to feel like this?I mean both me and my cousin sister feel that way except well she’s always angry…so it might be just another reason to get angry.

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Answer #1

I understand where you’re coming from, I think… It’s not so much that they’re just flirting with him, as much as it’s the fact that he’s happily married and they’re trying to encroach upon that. Close enough? That’s understandable! The best thing your dad can do is what he’s doing- politely turning them down. If he were to call them bi*es or yell at them, he’d be an a$$. Men shouldn’t just yell at women, so by treating them with respect, even though they’re being predatory, he’s doing the right thing. Also, when you react with anger/violence, you’re likely to receive anger/violence- and couple that with the fact there is alcohol involved, it may wind up turning physical. I highly doubt any party involved would like that.

I do think that pinkpearl has a point- maybe he enjoys the flirting a bit. He may think it’s funny that they flirt or funny that you get so wound up about it. I don’t know… If it bothers you so much, I wouldn’t go out with him so often… when he asks why, just tell him. :)

Answer #2

Yeah, that is horrible. Some women are just loose and have no sense of composure. Perhaps your dad should take your mum out to these places! The two of them could have a good time, and the people that frequent the pubs and clubs will eventually recognize him as a happily married man. Do you think that may help things?

Answer #3

It’s really going to shock them when they come up and give him a compliment and you say, “I know isn’t my daddy wonderful?” or, “Mommy thinks so too!” Haha I would pay to see their faces then. I kind of have a different situation, my dad is 64 guess how old I am, 13!

Answer #4

If you have a father who looks like a movie star then I think you need to accept it and just relax. Why so much anger? Try to figure out why it bothers you so much. Is it jealousy? Is it that you’re trying to be protective of a grown man? Maybe he enjoys the flirting.

Answer #5

I think im angry because the women take it too far sometimes it makes me sick in the stomach…they come out of nowhere and hug him and say buy me a drink handsome and I feel bad for my mum…I mean she’s at home working helping the family and my dad’s being all polite to some no good women who can’t seem to let go of the fact that HE IS MARRIED WITH CHILDREN…they just keep pursuing it …ofcourse it’s not gonna work not if I can help it!It’s like he tells them his married and they stll keep clutching on him…thats just terrible Oh my poor mama!

Answer #6

lol…my mum don’t like pubs bahaha…but maybe if I blindfold her and tell her im taking her somewhere special …then VOILA…THE PUB!AND A BIG SMACK JUST LANDED ON MY FACE!

Answer #7

Just be happy that atleast your dad is a happy married young looking & good looking man. Some dads just embarrass us kids. My dad is embarrassing because he keeps telling me to ask employees from stores stupid questions. Anyways your the lucky one that has a dad like that. Would you rather have a rude father that gets talked about or a dad that is polite & every women is hating that he’s taken. Tell your dad that next time a girl hits on you I’m gonna go to them and say sorry ladies he’s taken…and smile then walk away. Just remember that the girls are actually giving your dad complements and maybe your dad feels like how he was when he was young even though he looks young. Complements can make a person feel happy. And just a smile to someone can make there day. That’s what I do!!

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