How soon is too soon to have sex?

Too soon is not knowing a thing about what your doing.

Sex is like jumping off a bridge, the jump down is exhilarating but you never know whats at the bottom. Having sex at a young age is not recomended because the lack of knowledge teens have about sex is overwhelming. Sex isn’t something you want to take lightly and its also not something that you have to do, yes you do feel the urge to do it but that doesn’t mean you ‘’have’’ to do it. Understand that there are plenty of risks with sex, looking at only the good sides of sex is basically putting a mask over the bad parts. yes sex is wonderful and it can feel amazing but it can also lead to plenty of problems with friends and your partner as well.

Look more into sex, its not something your born knowing and some people seem to think like that. You need facts about sex not something that your friends tell you. Just because you feel the need to have sex doesn’t mean your ready. I have plenty of urges too but that doesn’t mean I take every urge I get to go off and have sex. It doesn’rt work like that, pregnancy scares, STDS and STIS are something to worry about.

Also looking at sex the wrong way can be a problem, sex isn’t about the physical aspect. Its mostly about sharing your body and your feelings with someone that you have true feelings for. This is what I feel seperates a terrible sex life with a wonderful sex life. Educate yourself about sex and once you know the basic information about it then ask yourself if its actually worth it? Having sex when its to early can be detrimental to a healthy relationship. Its something you both need to be ready for, not just you. You both have to decide when your ready for it and if you both truly know what your about to do.

Hope this helps.