How soon is too soon to have sex?

I am just curious as to what you GUYS think is too soon to have sex?? I don’t want to appear easy but I am really SEXUALLY attracted to this guy I have been talking/seeing too…I don’t want him to think I am easy but I am willing to take this step already…we have both been talking about having sex for a while…

Answer #1

Too soon is not knowing a thing about what your doing.

Sex is like jumping off a bridge, the jump down is exhilarating but you never know whats at the bottom. Having sex at a young age is not recomended because the lack of knowledge teens have about sex is overwhelming. Sex isn’t something you want to take lightly and its also not something that you have to do, yes you do feel the urge to do it but that doesn’t mean you ‘’have’’ to do it. Understand that there are plenty of risks with sex, looking at only the good sides of sex is basically putting a mask over the bad parts. yes sex is wonderful and it can feel amazing but it can also lead to plenty of problems with friends and your partner as well.

Look more into sex, its not something your born knowing and some people seem to think like that. You need facts about sex not something that your friends tell you. Just because you feel the need to have sex doesn’t mean your ready. I have plenty of urges too but that doesn’t mean I take every urge I get to go off and have sex. It doesn’rt work like that, pregnancy scares, STDS and STIS are something to worry about.

Also looking at sex the wrong way can be a problem, sex isn’t about the physical aspect. Its mostly about sharing your body and your feelings with someone that you have true feelings for. This is what I feel seperates a terrible sex life with a wonderful sex life. Educate yourself about sex and once you know the basic information about it then ask yourself if its actually worth it? Having sex when its to early can be detrimental to a healthy relationship. Its something you both need to be ready for, not just you. You both have to decide when your ready for it and if you both truly know what your about to do.

Hope this helps.

Answer #2

Well me and my girlfriend were gonna have sex after two weeks of going out and were both almost 14 years old. If you guys realy do love each other than do it because it’s up to you to decide wats too soon and wats the right time. Just make sure he’s serious and not just usin you for the sex.

Answer #3

If youre questioning it then then youre probably have doubts about it, if thats the case then youre not ready.

Answer #4

my first time was two months after we became serious and im 17 that was also her first time ….. 13 i think is too young but then again thats your decision ….. as like Miguel said study sex and figure out the bad as well as the good the thing that bothered me the most about sex is i personally dont want to be a daddy right now ………. use protection… double if you can… not the condoms they are more subject to break if mutiple are used at the same time….. use Birth control and a condom thts what we do

Answer #5

Personally i think you should be atleast 15 before you consider having se. But not only that, you have to FEEL ready, you can’t just rush into it :)

Answer #6

wait till you fall in love and make sre you really love them dont think oh ive been with you for 10 so that means i love you, NO! thats not love you’ll kno it when it happens till then it will always be to soon

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